My fiance' and I are planning the same type of wedding... just he and I. We have been talking w. Indira at Aruba Fairy Tale Weddings. Did you guys use a planner? It sounds like everything is on go for you both. Our accomodations are booked (through RCI), at Divi Dutch Resort/Golf Club. I am waiting to hear from Indira re. her photographer choices and will share that info with you as soon as I receive it.
Congratulations!