There are some options to Jimmy's, which is at its best after 2 AM on Fridays and Saturdays. Arashi Beach (which is more rocks and less gorgeous powdery sand) near the California lighthouse is where gay men are often nude sunbathing.

Sopranos Piano Bar is gay-friendly, and a good bet for earlier in the night, before Jimmy's. If you are at Jimmy's at the end of the night, you can follow the migration to other late-night spots, such as Euphoria.

There is also a noticeable gay contingient at the monthly Full Moon parties.

Beyond that, Arubians and travelers find each other on gaydar.co.uk, manhunt.net and adam4dadam.com.