I read this post last night and didn't quite know how to respond. I agree with everyone. When I read it last night, it was after a long day/week of work. The list exhausted me. I thought maybe because I'm just tired. But I just read it again, and it exhausted me again.
It's good to have some ideas of what you want to do, see, eat, etc. Too much planning can be an exhausting vacation. Aruba is a slow paced island. You'll see when you get there. Just go slow - in a relaxing kind of way. Beach, bar, sand, food, family, friends. Nothing more need be done.
Have a blast! A relaxing blast!!