You can apply a permit for ,, renteniervergunning,, Your family can apply then for ,, gezinshereniging ,, .
That means you and your family have a no working (retiring) permit in Aruba.
You must have a decent place to stay and have more earnings then
Afl 100.000 a year. you can find more info at
www.dimasaruba.com or
www.overheid.aw only most pages are in Dutch or Papiamento.
If you follow the steps it`s not so hard as it seems, it is work but dueable.