[Shnyda]

Well the first thing nice is they are adults.... they can go out downtown to the bars/clubs. The musician may enjoy the Piano bar. It's not really what he/she may be used to at home but certainly a good time.

If anyone needs to be "dragged" to Aruba - isn't it just better to leave them behind.

I remember in my teens, the last family vacation we went on was a carribean cruise. I made the best of it, even though I was an "adult" at 17 or 18.