Thanks for all the information from everyone.
Everyone has good points. But I think that I will stick with Jet Blue out of JFK for the following reasons:
DirectTV with free movies to Aruba.
Free Snacks (DD Coffee

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Much more comfortable seats, wider, and more foot room(have spoken to a friend who is a Continetal Elite Platinum Member, that is over 75,000 miles a year, he even said that Coach seats for Continental are horrible)
If price drops they will refund difference WITHOUT a re-booking charge, compared to Continental's $150
No Charge for first piece luggage (I know that I would get 1st pc free on Con. but the way they seem to change things I just don't trust them)
Car service is only $10 more to JFK vs Newark.
If I compare the prices I paid last year on Jet Blue, they are very similar to prices NOW. I know that you can never tell what will happen. But even if the price is the same or even a little higher Jet Blue in my mind is a better decision, especially when traveling with 2 young kids for the TV and Snacks!
Oh well thanks again for all the useful information!!!!
If anyone disagrees with my synopsis let me know, I know it is a personal thing, but I like to get peoples feelings!