This is my thought of every day. When things get tough and I cant seem to get a handle on what ever problem is in my face and about to blow I think back way back to the day I was in the hospital in so much pain because I let it get to me.
Hi my name is Bill and I am a workaholic (not any more). I was laying in the emergency room not knowing what was going to happen. All I could think of was how many times I gave up vacation, family, freinds etc for work, had to get it done. Everything turned out fine but I havent done an 80 hour work week in 12 years. try not to do 40

So my thought is "there are no problems only solutions". Haven't missed a vacation, family or friend event since. Blood pressure down happiness way up.