I am very sorry for everything that the family of this young girl has to go through while searching for their daughter. I cannot even imagine or begin to put myself in their place. However it baffles me that so many people are still not putting any blame on this young woman. If she was as responsible as everyone claims she was then why would she be getting into a car at 1:30 am with people that she has just met on vacation whom she barely knew alone? And all this talk of rape, how are we to know for sure she was raped? I have been to Aruba many times and in that time developed many friendships with the locals and not once have I ever felt threatened by anyone, the fact that people talk about how they will no longer visit the Island or how the people that she met are scumbags or how they blame the Aruban government makes me sick. I feel truly sorry for natalee and her family and I pray that she is found safe and unharmed, but the fact that the investigation isn't focusing more on her and her actions as well as the chaperones who were supposed to be watching her makes me wonder.