[Arubalisa]

Sorry cannot help you with the beach vs. roof top, but the roof top does sound intriguing. One of our favorite restaurants, and most romantic was a roof top restaurant in Oranjestad. Unfortunately it is no longer open.

We used to love the Sunset Grille but for the expense, I would also look at the Screaming Eagle http://www.screaming-eagle.net/ (same owners and same great food as Flying Fishbone) and Windows on Aruba http://www.windowsonaruba.com/.

Both restaurants rank extremely high at http://www.restaurantsaruba.com/all.html