Love your title! I've been following this for a month or 2 & am finally getting on here & posting something (if I'm doing it properly!). I've been to Aruba 5 times & my husband just once - last year. Needless to say, it didn't take much convincing to get him to go back again this year.
We'll be there the first week of Nov. so I'm curious to see what kind of responses you get re: things to do.