Ray,
I'm a single woman in my late (ugh...did I just admit that?!) 30's. I share a condo with people I know but tend not to "hang out" with them as we have very different interests. I like to go to the casino near the condo where we stay. I love that we go every May and it's usually the same people there at that time of year. I've befriended several couples and other singles who go the same weeks as us. I will be traveling alone Nov. 8-12th, so I'll just miss you. The locals are tremendously friendly as are the other travelers. I love Aruba and go several times a year. No need to bring sand to the beach. I'm single and will travel solo. I hope you enjoyed your trip. It's a fantastic island!!