It's not about fear...I'm 6'7"/265 lbs.Aruba is just a freebird island that's very permissive and anything goes...Not much is illegal there. Lots of drunks & drugs and if that's what you're into, Delta is ready when you are..After the hotels there's not much else. We actually have nicer beaches here and not at 107 degrees. The island hopeful is that you get all liqoured up and head for the casinos....Happy Sailing!