I would recommend the Renaissance Aruba suites. THe location is ideal ... Dunkin's donuts, subway, sabarro's...pick up groceries within a 5 minute walk at Hong King. Prices are very similiar to home. The private island is great for little kids. Its a fun boat ride over, no one else can get on the island unless they are staying there, the island is really kid friendly and so is their kids menu at the restuarant there. We feel very safe on the island..no chair wars... Also, there is a small lagoon at the hotel, a play area, and 2 great pools. VERY family friendly ! Many good resturants within walking distance, that way you are avoiding the cab fares....You also have places to walk to if the kids get a bit to much sun....We've been going for 10 years there, and the place is perfect for families.....