We like Iguana Joe's downtown. The kids meals are huge and sometimes we order two or three and split them among four of us. The Mac'N'Cheese is the best we've ever had. Great people watching location and unrushed atmosphere...a fun night out.
The Buccaneer is also a great meal at a reasonable price and the kids love watching the fish and turtles swimming by as well as the lobsters walking around. As ArubaMark mentioned in an earlier post, the lobster bisque is to die for.
We are steak lovers and the "El Gaucho Steak" at El Gaucho's is one of the best we've had anywhere in the world (and at a reasonable price - comparable to the USA).
Finally, vegging on the beach, at the pool, snorkeling from shore, hunting for iguanas, taking pictures, long walks, window shopping, etc. are all free and occupy most of our time in paradise.
Dave and Jodie