We just returned from our Honeymoon and had the best time at the Tam. I guess from reading all the posts for a couple of months people get the wrong immpression of the Tam. We enjoyed the beach just 100 feet from our room. We also found the people freindly and helpful. We will book the Tam next year for sure. The Tam was perfect for us but if you want big hotel amenities choose a high rise. Either way Aruba is a great Island with great people and you will have a great time.
Roco