Sorry to hear about your husband's health and having to cancel your trip. Hopefully, by keeping active on the forum you can feel like your visiting. Aruba will still be there and I hope you are able to reschedule soon.
I haven't been able to get on the board for the last couple of weeks. Today, I had some time, and I saw your post and wanted to let you know that you and your husband are in my prayers (if you don't mind). As Andrea said, we had to cancel our trip for Feb due to my husband having a stroke just days before our scheduled trip. Of course, the stroke was first on our mind, but it was a very sad day when the day of our trip came and went. Hugs to you.