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Re: aa meetings in aruba
Greg, speaking from experience of a close family member I think when anyone has alcohol problems or severe depression lasting a long time, severe anxieties meetings etc. are certainly wonderful but they need a complete life style change.
If the life style you lead causes you to "pick up" as they say or depresses you or what ever it does to make you unhappy continually you need a lot more than meetings and/or therapy.
Change is change. 95% of the time, if you stay in the same environment, same surroundings, same work atmosphere, same family problems and more, people eventually go back to what got them in tbl. in the first place.
Support groups are great also but when your A.D.L (active daily living) is affecting your life, no matter what it takes, change your life style and circumstances. What sense does it make to have a great job in a beautiful home and not be happy?
At all cost and consideration you need to get away from what put you where you are in the first place.
Hanging in there and all that is fine but when your circumstances turns you to the vices and is heading you down the road to destruction, get away and get away quick before an extremely life threatening occurence happens.
If you want to change a bad circumstance you must change the circumstance causing the problem, no matter what it takes and no matter how hard it is to make the change!
Nothing is worth your life as a sacrifice!
AA meetings saved many lives and helped tons of good people. But you shouldn't have to go to them all your life to cope with bad circumstances in your life that can be, if you really want it too, be changed for good.
I admire immencely people who realize they have a true problem that they cannot fix themselves and reach out for the help they need. Sharing thoughts and stories with people who know how they feel inside and not with outsiders, so to speak, who do not understand an uncontrollable vice.
These good people are drinking and all the rest of the vices, knowing all along they are doing wrong and they hate themselves for it but they need help and understanding.
God bless all you people who are reaching out for help and I lived a long time with it with a close family member. They stumbled a long time and until they made some major changes in their life, they never would have really made it.
Nice of you to offer rides, Greg, God bless!
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