Welcome
Yes you made a great choice picking aruba as your vacation.
Where are you staying?
When are you going?
what do your wife and you like to do?
are you on a fixed budget or is that still to be determined?
When my wife and I go (son too) we just relax at the beach and pool (radisson) and pick our favorite restaurants to stuff our faces

lets us know more about you and these people here will give you the best advice ( too many names to name but they know who they are

) and they will definitely respond and help make your vacation just perfect.
Enjoy
Thanks for serving in the marines