OBNOXIOUS and unwanted visitor messages

[Andrea J.]

Many of us have been receiving unwanted "visitor messages".

Click on your name and see if you have received any visitor messages (these are different than private messaging)

Please, if you have received inappropriate visitor messages please click REPORT and we will make sure to remove the offending messenger from the forum.

If the messages are just plain annoying and not spam or inappropriate, just delete them.

But, i do need to know if there are "inappropriate" messages.
Including but not limited to:
SPAM advertising.
PORN
Weirdness
etc.....

Andrea

[Vicky464]

Hi, Don't see any Private messages but got email to my personal email address referencing this site. I would like to report it to the site. Can I forward it to someone here? THanks!

[aquaman]

Here is the text of one I have received multiple times today:


Hi There,

I was just going through the matches on www.aruba.com, but when I came
accross your profile it sparkle my interest and I will like to get to know you
more and more better, What do you do? are you married? Have you been commited
in a stronge relationship before? How many kids do you have? Where are you really
from? And where are you now? I need answer to those questions as soon as possible
cos there is something I will like to tell you.

I'm single , i am a fun loving,easy going,down to earth and affectionate
person.I am a passionate person and i like to meet new people and i always want
to go extra miles to get my loved by who so ever comes arround me.I am fun to be
with. I liked what I read and saw in your profile and would like to become
better acquainted and see if there is or could be some real chemistry between
us. Please connect with me and let us find out!

You can get back to me via my personal mail address
Hope to hear from you as soon as possible,we're never far apart, for friendship
doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart and also love knows no
boundaries, no distance, no fear. What captures is the God's love that will
eternally melt hearts together to stay, fused and sealed forever as one.
Always with affection,

Hug and kissessssss
Hope to hear from you soonest.
Juliana

[Sunny Beaches]

Wow, potential STALKER?

[Andrea J.]

argh :-(

please go to your user control panel
please go to the section where it asks about Private Messaging and Email
please only have it so that only Private Messaging is ENABLED

if any of you give out your personal email address, i encourage you to make sure that you know who the sender is.

especially in the timeshare rental/sales category let folks contact you by PM not email.
andrea

[Andrea J.]

try this:
User CP
Settings & Options
Edit Options
Messaging & Notification
"Uncheck"
You can allow other members to send you email messages.
Receive Email from Other Members

[peterharman]

I'm new in this forum. I hope i will not receive any unwanted messages.