I love when friends go on trips too, seeing their photos and hearing about their adventures.
I find the annoying comments mostly come from our coworkers My husband tells his coworkers that his wife makes a lot of money. This is not true, he but it stops some of the comments so he just goes with it.
We've seen too many loved ones work hard their whole lives, putting things off for retirement, then when that time comes they have health issues or other roadblocks come up and th eery never get the chance to enjoy the fruits of their labor. We choose the life is short so enjoy mantra as well.