My wife and I are expecting our second child literally ANY DAY now. That makes a girl (3 yrs) and our new son. This post couldn't have had better timing for us. We haven't seen the beach in far too long and are looking at an Aruba trip this fall. The information here is a great start! Thanks to everyone who's helping us "family types" make our Aruba plans a reality. Sounds like there are some good options where we won't feel like we're ruining the stay for couples and mature travelers looking to avoid us with kids in tow.